Children’s Day in Poland is here again. The Polish holiday of Dzień Dziecka, Children’s Day, is June 1st in Poland every year. We don’t have Children’s Day in the US where I’m from, so I conveniently forget it each year.
Their father usually remembers as well. Perhaps I should do something for Children’s Day. They did a bang up job for Mother’s Day this year. I mean I nagged the hell out of them, but still.
Don’t say I never gave you anything
They may get nothing from me on Children’s Day, but I have given my kids one extremely valuable gift. The gift of chores. Chores? Yes, chores. I had chores as a kid. Didn’t we all? I had the basic keeping my room clean chore that most kids get. That chore was non-negotiable. Then each Saturday my sister and I divvied up the rest of the chores on the chore list, alternating each week who got first pick, thus sticking your sister with the chores you despised i.e. cleaning the bathrooms.
Now on the rare occasion I go to the USA, I start in on the chores even after all these years. But it’s for a different reason. I want to help. Back then I had no interest in keeping my parents’ house clean and looking nice. My parents oft repeated that it was their house, and we had to “pay our way” or “earn our keep”. Not the friendliest of parental methods, and not very motivating to us kids to go above and beyond the regular chores. Those were the choriest chores. I did them because I had to. I don’t know what the consequences would have been had I not done them. I was too scared to find out.
Chores, our way
I have a slightly different parental philosophy. I remind the kids that this is our home, and we need to take care of it. If that doesn’t work, I turn on an episode of “Hoarders” – Chomikowanie in Polish. It works every time!
I also let my kids play to their strengths. Lizzie enjoys mowing the lawn and cleaning the car inside and out. She also likes to organize things. Rosie isn’t too keen on lawn mowing, but she likes digging, planting, weeding, and raking. She also likes kitchen stuff such as cooking, baking, and even washing the dishes.
In my opinion, chores provide kids with a sense of home, responsibility, family, and even pride. My grandmother always said that there’s no shame in being poor, only in being dirty. They also develop life skills that they will need when they leave home. Chores also provide my kids a way to earn pocket money. They have to do basic chores, but they can do extra chores to get a little walking around money. They’re happy with that set up and so are we.
Chores, po polsku
Do Polish kids have chores? My husband said that they most certainly do, maybe not so-named, but they do. When he was a kid he definitely had chores, but without a chart (we don’t do the chart either), but yes, he had chores.
We are all just kids at heart ❤️ so treat yourself this Children’s Day and don’t forget to do your chores!